Save the cocky funny for early in your interactions - opening, bantering, that sort of thing. Then drop it and move to chase framing as you progress. Get away from the impersonal - move to the intimately personal. And let her know that she's the one that's pursuing you , and you'll have a far easier time of things than the guys who still think cocky funny is the skeleton key to seduction. It's a tool - use it at the right stage of seduction, and you'll benefit immensely. Chase woke up one day in tired of being alone.
So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out dating. After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends plus plenty of failures along the way , he launched this website.
He will teach you everything he knows about girls in one single program in his One Date System. It only takes one date to get the girl you want. Best of all, the date's easy to get Skip to main content. If you're not familiar with cocky funny, it looks something like this: Guy: Wow, are those sunglasses or are you expecting a flash bomb to go off?
Girl: [laughs] They're not that big. Girl: [laughs] I like to indulge myself. Guy: It looks more like you like indulging your entire family.
Girl: [laughs] Well, I have to be well stocked, just in case! Guy: In case a charming knave like myself comes a-calling, right? Girl: That's right. Cocky and Funny, Misapplied What happens with most men new to the social arts when they discover the concept of cocky funny is that they go into overdrive trying to use it everywhere. Head Towards the Light If you pay attention, women give you all kinds of indications when they're ready for things to move to the next level.
You'll want to look for a few signs of interest from girls: She starts asking you questions about yourself She starts talking about her self She starts touching you or asking to see something you have on She starts smiling at you a lot There's one exception to that - which is when you meet women who are playing games with you. If you're getting something like that, keep the heat on. Overuse of cocky funny by newer guys is one of the leading reasons why women blow them out.
And at that point, it's bye bye cocky funny guy. How can you use cocky funny humor to get the girls you like to take note of you too?
How about later on into an interaction? Which means things aren't moving forward. Chase framing looks like this: [girl trips and falls in the guy's direction; he catches her] Guy: Talk about throwing yourself at someone, geez.
Girl: [laughs] I lost my balance. Guy: You could try and be more subtle about it. Girl: [laughs] Guy: [back to what he was talking about before she fell] or [girl stares at guy as she sips her drink] Guy: That look might work on other men, but I'm impervious to its effects.
Girl: What look? Girl: I didn't realize you caught on. Girl: You're innocent? Guy: You can't tell? Girl: [laughs] Guy: So you were going to tell me about why you changed schools.
See how chase framing does a much better job of both: Setting a sexual tone, and Continuing to build rapport without cycling back to banter? Push Cocky-Funny vs. Pull Cocky-Funny. Both can work. Try this simple "copy paste" text message to get her intrigued, and thinking that she made a mistake.
I want to turn things around with her so we can be a LOT more than friends. I'm cool being friend zoned by girls I want to date. Connect with us.
How To Be Cocky Funny. With push, you are cocky enough to think that you are too good for the girl, so you push her away. With pull, you are cocky enough to think that you are irresistible to her and to women in general, and you want her, so you pull her in. This applies only if the following also hold: a. Most people overlook the fact that David D.
But for the most part, if your fundamentals are already strong, then: a You can get much faster attraction by pulling her in more often than you can by pushing her away.
A far more efficient way to develop emotional connections is to pull her in emotionally. And this is a KEY distinction: push cocky-funny, and pull cocky-funny. Well, the best way to illustrate what I mean is through examples. Pull 1 Her : shocked : Huh? Are you crazy? Pull 2 Her : breaking out laughing : Where are you from? Me : From? I want your number. Pull 3 Her : laughing : No way.
Me : Okay, … guess. Her : Um, China? Pull 5 Her : laughed Me : perking up and letting out a sly smile : Okay, give me your number. Her: laughs Okay. I took her number, we talked a little bit more, then I let her go back to her friends. There are so many possibilities to choose from, but this conversation of his has stuck in my mind for a while now: ZAN: Come out with me for a drink tonight.
I will pick you up at 7. ZAN: big smile Hello, sweetie. Did you miss me? HER: Hardly. ZAN: I want to see you. HER: No! I told you last time I have a boyfriend. HER: No thanks.
ZAN: Of course not! Download Now. Continue Reading. Click to comment. More in Relationships. Why Do Girls Ghost You? The Truth! By Michael Hill May 22, Older Posts.
It does however, retain a hint confidence and is overall very attractive. Not to mention, funny is always great and creates a nice ambiance. Adding mis-directional humor to the same comment removes the arrogance that would of otherwise been associated with the comment. The result? You come off as funny AND confident, two qualities that are very attractive to have.
The concept of using slightly cocky comments that are funny only works if you sprinkle it throughout an interaction! Even David DeAngelo says it himself, even though cocky and funny seems to be the technique that everyone remembers, his other stuff is even more powerful.
Your outside personality reflects your inside feelings.
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